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Dear Lydia

Lydia Shum Dear Lydia,

Today morning I woke up to rumours of your passing. Dad told me that you’ve passed away, I thought I’ve heard wrongly. You were putting up a very brave front against your liver cancer, diagnosed a few years back. Everyone wished that you could recover, reappear on the TV screens.

Then came nightfall, when TVB aired snippets of one of the 100 films you’ve acted in and another 5000 episodes of variety show you’ve hosted. I can’t believe that the old cheerful, tardy and loving Lydia has left us. Forever.

Affetionately known as Fei Fei or Fei Jie (in cantonese, Fatty and Fat Sister respectively), you definitely revolutionised  the Hongkong entertainment scene. You’ve defined laughter and joy, you were the main anchor of so many variety shows. You were the benchmark, the absolute standard of a good, friendly host.

I remember your signature voice, sharp and loud. I remember your signature glasses, black and huge. I remember your hairstyle, curly and fluffy.

I grown up watching your sitcoms and TV shows. I miss your unqiue laughter and your cheerful self. Do you know how much it burns me to see you skinny and pale, being pushed around in a wheelchair, desperately avoiding the inconsiderate and tabloid-thirsty paparazzi? Do you know how much I wished that you could conquer your illness, and continue your seemingly endless endeavour in the entertainment arena?

I followed your Singapore-made sitcom, Living With Lydia. I adored your performance :) it’s awesome. You can literally give life to sitcoms… your unqiue personality is irreplacable.

But at least, leaving this world means leaving all the pain behind. Leaving for a silent, peaceful, picturesque place.

Your departure is a tragic loss to the entertainment arena. Not only Hongkong – you’ve got fans from almost everywhere around the world.

You’ll be well missed. Do rest in peace. My prayers are up for you.

So this is goodbye :cry:

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8 responses to “Dear Lydia” » Leave a response

  1. IvyResponse

    What?! She passed on?? No way… unbelievable. R.I.P.

    Check out Ivy’s last blog post: Nanyate: Springley Edition (Final)

  2. Marz

    I have watched some of her shows before, but I had no idea that she had cancer. Wow, this is really a sad day. Rest in peace. =/

  3. lettiResponse

    my sister told me about this, this morning. We’ve lost a great entertainer.

    Check out letti’s last blog post: Valentine’s and Stomach Flu

  4. eddyResponse

    yar.. ive heard abt it… was really sad that she was gone… i love her show living with lydia… the way she portrayed in that comedy… classic… i did watch a few movies that she stared in as well…

    its a loss to the movie industry.. she was a well rounded comedian.

    Check out eddy’s last blog post: busy.work

  5. vkeongResponse

    It is a great loss to the HK entertainment industry.. really

    During CNY I watched the TVB ceremony which she came out on a wheelchair to receive the lifetime achievement award.. a very moving moment..

    Check out vkeong’s last blog post: Best Beef Soup Koay Teow in Penang

  6. med

    sad indeed.. RIP lydia…you have been a fantastic entertainer

  7. ingSiangResponse

    RIP to Fei Fei. =(

    Check out ingSiang’s last blog post: Thanks Ah Goh! =)

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